Finding a way to bond with your baby in NICU can be difficult to say the least. There are so many wires and tubes attached to your little one, nurses and doctors telling you what you can and cannot do, as well as the constant dinging of alarms. It is enough to jangle anyone’s nerves. It also doesn’t help that the touching in singing that comforted your baby yesterday, upsets him today.

One way to help both the parents and the baby (regardless if the child is preterm or full term) is Kangaroo Care. Kangaroo care is skin-to-skin contact between parent and child. Both the mother and father can participate.

During Kangaroo Care, there will be an Registered Nurse (RN) and a Respiratory Therapist (RT). They will work in sync to gently place the baby on the parent and make sure that the move doesn’t stress out the baby. This is extremely important with a baby who is still on a respirator and cannot breath on her own. The RN and RT will continue to monitor the baby and make sure she does not become overstressed.

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The benefits of Kangaroo Care are many. It has a very calming effect on both the parent and the child. It will increase the milk supply in the mother. KC will encourage the bonding experience. During KC, the baby will have increased physiological stability, including heart rate, oxygen levels and temperature regulation.

To learn more:

http://www.kangaroomothercare.com/ 

June 9th is Baby E’s 1 month birthday. It is an amazing milestone considering when he was born, he was only given a 20% chance. The best part, on June 8th, I was able to hold him for the first time. He still weighs less than 2 pounds.

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At 1-3 pounds, Eric is considered a micro-preemie. Which makes it a bit difficult to find clothes for him. Not only do the clothes need to fit his itty bitty size, they also need to accommodate all of the tubes and wires connected to him.

Local stores have sizes that are way too huge for him. So back to Google and online shopping. One such place that I have found is Preemies R Us. Lots of cute clothes made for the NICU. Along with clothes, they have pacifiers (that will not interfere with CPAP), snuggle toys and blankets. They only thing they didn’t have, and I wish they did, is a swaddle blanket made for micros in the NICU. Micro-preemies love to be swaddled and it is difficult to find one small enough.

Living life in NICU (Newborn Intensive Care Unit) can be challenging, to say the least. It is a constant rollercoaster of emotions. Some days are easy and you are elated. Other days, you can feel your whole life crashing down. Those are the days that you know you will be given a call in the middle of the night. It is relief when it doesn’t happen.

My own preemie, Baby E is now 27 weeks gestationally and is 21 days in the NICU.  It seems more important than ever to document the journey that he is going through. Every day I take pictures so that I have something of him to take home with me. Every milestone is celebrated, every setback mourned. The people at www.mykidsinspiration.com realize this and have a whole section is dedicated to NICU scrapbooking, along with calenders and milestone stickers.

The days of NICU are uncertain, but memories are forever.

One of the reasons some women discontinue breastfeeding, is the pain associated with it. Problems such as sore and cracked nipples are a great discouragement. A good product to help counteract that is Lansinoh HPA® Brand Lanolin. Lanolin is created when shearing sheep for their wool and is many skin care products.

Lansinoh HPA® Brand Lanolin is 100% pure medical grade lanolin and is safe for baby. It doesn’t have to be removed before nursing. As a personal testament, this stuff is heaven.

If somehow you are unable to breastfeed directly, but still want your child to have the benefits of breast milk, renting a breast pump may be an option. I am currently renting the Medela Lactina from the hospital for $35 a month. It is meant for long term pumping, unlike many of the pumps on the market. Many are meant only for occasional use. Spare parts for the Medela Lactina are sold at  online stores such as Amazon.

I may eventually get a different one, perhaps the hand’s free, also from Medela. For right now, the Lactina is working for me until I am able to breast feed my preemie directly.

On May 09, 2008, Baby E was born. At 24 weeks and 1 day, the prospect is bleak for him. However, he continues to beat the odds. He was born weighing 450 grams and will need to stay in the hospital for 16 more weeks. I am still in shock and it is hard to keep from crying when I see him in NICU. I am so grateful to all of the staff at at UMC in So. Arizona. Thanks to all you.

Everyday is a blessing that Baby E is in my life.

Educators’ Top 100 Children’s Books

The following list was compiled from an online survey in 2007. Parents and teachers will find it useful in selecting quality literature for children.

  1. Charlotte’s Web by E.B. White
  2. Where the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak
  3. The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein
  4. Green Eggs and Ham by Dr. Seuss
  5. Good Night Moon by Margaret Wise Brown
  6. I Love You Forever by Robert N. Munsch
  7. Because of Winn Dixie by Kate DiCamillo
  8. Oh! The Places You Will Go by Dr. Seuss
  9. The Little House by Virginia Lee Burton
  10. The Polar Express by Chris Van Allsburg
  11. Skippyjon Jones by Judy Schachner
  12. Thank You Mr. Falker by Patricia Polacco
  13. The Cat In The Hat by Dr. Seuss
  14. The Lorax by Dr. Seuss
  15. The Miraculous Journey of Edward Tulane by Kate DiCamillo
  16. The Mitten by Jan Brett
  17. Crunching Carrots, Not Candy by Judy Slack
  18. Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus by Mo Willlems
  19. Harry Potter Series by J.K. Rowling
  20. A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L’Engle
  21. Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good Very Bad Day by Judith Viorst
  22. Are You My Mother? by P.D. Eastman
  23. Corduroy by Don Freeman
  24. Lilly’s Purple Plastic Purse by Kevin Henkes
  25. Stellaluna by Janell Cannon
  26. Tacky the Penquin by Helen Lester
  27. The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis
  28. The Velveteen Rabbit by Margery Williams
  29. Chicka Chicka Boom Boom by Bill Martin Jr.
  30. Click Clack Moo: Cows That Type Doreen Cronin
  31. Harold and the Purple Crayon by Crockett Johnson
  32. Horton Hatches the Egg by Dr. Seuss
  33. Junie B. Jones by Barbara Park
  34. Little House in the Big Woods by Laura Ingalls Wilder
  35. Make Way For Ducklings by Robert McCloskey
  36. The Phantom Tollbooth by Norton Juster
  37. Piggie Pie by Margie Palatini
  38. The Little Engine That Could by Watty Piper
  39. The Monster at the End of this Book by Jon Stone
  40. The Tale of Despereaux by Kate DiCamillo
  41. A Bad Case of Stripes by David Shannon
  42. Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs by Judi Barrett
  43. From the Mixed Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler by E.L. Konigsburg
  44. Inkheart by Cornelia Funke
  45. Maniac Magee by Jerry Spinelli
  46. Officer Buckle and Gloria by Peggy Rathmann
  47. Olivia by Ian Falconer
  48. The BFG by Roald Dahl
  49. The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn
  50. The Secret Garden by Frances Hodgson Burnett
  51. The Sneetches by Dr. Seuss
  52. The Very Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle
  53. Tikki Tikki Tembo by Arlene Mosel
  54. A Little Princess by Frances Hodgson Burnett
  55. Bark, George by Jules Feiffer
  56. Bunnicula by James Howe
  57. Charlie and the Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl
  58. Charlie the Caterpillar by Dom DeLuise
  59. Chrysanthemum by Kevin Henkes
  60. Dear Mr. Henshaw by Beverly Cleary
  61. Frederick by Leo Lionni
  62. Frindle by Andrew Clements
  63. Frog and Toad by Arnold Lobel
  64. Guess How Much I Love You by Sam McBratney
  65. Harris and Me by Gary Paulsen
  66. Harry the Dirty Dog by Gene Zion
  67. Hop on Pop by Dr. Seuss
  68. How the Grinch Stole Christmas by Dr. Seuss
  69. I Love You, Stinky Face by Lisa McCourt
  70. Is Your Mama A Llama? by Deborah Guarino
  71. Jan Brett’s books
  72. Knots on a Counting Rope by Bill Martin Jr.
  73. Little Women by Louisa May Alcott
  74. Mike Mulligan and His Steam Shovel by Virginia Lee Burton
  75. Miss Rumphius by Barbara Cooney
  76. My Father’s Dragon by Ruth Stiles Gannett
  77. My Many Colored Days by Dr. Seuss
  78. My Side of the Mountain by Jean Craighead George
  79. No David! by David Shannon
  80. One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish by Dr. Seuss
  81. Where the Sidewalk Ends by Shel Silverstein
  82. Stephanie’s Ponytail by Robert Munsch
  83. Swimmy by Leo Lionni
  84. The Hundred Dresses by Eleanor Estes
  85. The Boxcar Children by Gertrude Warner
  86. The Dark Is Rising by Susan Cooper
  87. The Empty Pot by Demi
  88. The Five Chinese Brothers by Claire Huchet Bishop
  89. The Giver by Lois Lowr
  90. The Grouchy Ladybug by Eric Carle
  91. The Hobbit by J.R.R. Tolkien
  92. The Important Book by Margaret Wise Brown
  93. The Last Holiday Concert by Andrew Clements
  94. The Napping House by Audrey Wood
  95. The Quiltmaker’s Gift by Jeff Brumbeau
  96. The Snowy Day by Ezra Jack Keats
  97. The Story About Ping by Marjorie Flack
  98. The True Story of the Three Little Pigs by Jon Scieszka
  99. Tuck Everlasting by Natalie Babbitt
  100. The Wide-Mouthed Frog: A Pop-Up Book by Keith Faulkner

Found on http://www.nea.org

After 7 weeks of pregnancy, I was rushed to the hospital for bleeding.  Same thing happened again at 9 weeks. As you can imagine, the first trimester of pregnancy was not a great time for me. I was on bed rest for the entire trimester and later allowed to ease back into my routine.

For many women however, bed rest is mandated for the entire pregnancy. An organization that was recommended to me was http://www.sidelines.org/ I have never actually checked it out myself as I was allowed to get off of bed rest, but if you are in a high risk pregnancy, you may want to check it out. Just knowing that you are not alone and that there are other people to talk to, may be its biggest benefit.

On April 15, 2008, the National Toxicology Program, part of the U.S. National Institutes of Health, issued draft findings stating “There is some concern for neural and behavioral effects in fetuses, infants and children at current human exposures.” The findings expressed concern about exposure in these populations, “based on effects in the prostate gland, mammary gland, and an earlier age for puberty in females.”

The FDA is being asked to reconsider its findings on the potential hazardous long term effects of bisphenol-A.

So what is bisphenol-A? It was originally created in the 1930’s as synthetic estrogen. Later it became used to make a clear plastic and epoxy resin for the food industry. It has been under the spotlight for about a decade now as more and more studies show links to health care issues.

BPA is in polycarbonate bottles, usually with a 7 recycle number on the bottom. It is also used as an epoxy lining in metal food and beverage containers. It is thought that it leaches out into the food and mimics estrogen in the body. The reason for only banning it in baby products, is because it is thought to cause the most problems in newborns and young infants. BPA has been thought to cause long-term problems, such as early puberty in girls, reproductive problems, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, insulin resistance, and certain cancers later in life.

Canada has banned BPA (bisphenol-A) from baby bottles and is the first country to do so. While the U.S. hasn’t followed in Canada’s footsteps, stores like Wal-Mart, and Toys/Babies “R” Us, are pulling them from their shelves.

BPA has been found in the urine of many people and in concentrated amounts in the amniotic fluid of pregnant women. Bisphenol-A can also be found in breast milk. More research is needed to determine what is safe and what isn’t. However, right now during pregnancy, it is better to be safe than sorry.

How to reduce your exposure to you and your fetus:

  1. Reduce your intake of canned goods and beverages. Eden Foods™, however, is BPA free.
  2. Look for, and avoid, the #7 on the bottom of your container. It is usually located in a recyclable triangle. Polycarbonate plastic is clear and rigid. Not all #7s are polycarbonate, but it is best to be on the safe side.
  3. Choose plastics that have #1, #2, #4 and #5. Avoid #3 as it is made from PVC plastic.
  4. Do not microwave or pour hot food or beverages in any type of plastic containers. Try to use other materials besides plastic, for hot foods and beverages, such as porcelain, glass and metal.
  5. Make sure that if you use metal containers, they are stainless steel and not lined with plastic.
  6. Do not use plastic bottles that are scratched and old.
  7. Do not wash plastics in harsh dish washing soap and hot water. It can cause abrasions in the plastic that allow the toxins to leach out.
  8. Avoid using plastic wrap with food and never microwave with it. SaranWrap™ is considered BPA-free.

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